How Scapegoats are Seen by Society when we are No Contact
No contact isn’t for everyone but for those of you who are no contact, how are you treated by society? I’m no contact with all of my...
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Sarah Vu
- Jun 16
- 3 min
Father's Day with Toxic Fathers
Let’s talk about Father’s Day with toxic fathers. This blog is for educational and awareness purposes only. The terms narcissist,...
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Sarah Vu
- Jun 8
- 5 min
6 Patterns and Phrases Toxic Partners use
It’s time to talk about toxic relationships. You may have thought you met the one, maybe they even saved you from toxicity just to drag...
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Sarah Vu
- May 31
- 8 min
6 Ways Narcissistic Grandparents will try to Take Control of Your Children
We talk about toxic, narcissistic parents all the time but now it’s time to talk about narcissistic grandparents. This blog is for...
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Sarah Vu
- May 19
- 4 min
Trauma, Abuse, and using the Terms Narcissist, Sociopath, and Psychopath
When we are in the safe space for narcissistic abuse recovery, we often find a few people who try to poke around at certain terms or...
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Sarah Vu
- Apr 25
- 5 min
6 Ways Narcissistic Parents Force Their Scapegoats to Be Their "Cinderella"
Cinderella syndrome is a term I like to use to help describe what scapegoats go through when they are forced to endure being a maid or a...
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Sarah Vu
- Apr 17
- 3 min
Narcissistic and Psychopathic Parents use Isolation & the Abuse of Relationships to Harm Scapegoats
Today we are discussing How narcissistic and psychopathic parents use isolation and the abuse of relationships to harm scapegoats. This...
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Sarah Vu
- Apr 9
- 8 min
8 Signs a Narcissist is “Playing the Victim” to Befriend you in Survivor Safe Spaces
We need to talk about toxic people who are acting like victims to manipulate actual survivors. This blog is for educational and awareness...
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Sarah Vu
- Apr 1
- 4 min
Four Common Expectations Toxic Parents Often Share in "Parenting" Children
I recently got a comment on Facebook referring to my last video on parenting styles. I think it’s a good opportunity to talk about it...
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Sarah Vu
- Feb 18
- 4 min
Parenting Styles
“That’s how it was back then,” or “that was how I was raised” are common responses that I’ve heard from people who still use toxic...
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Sarah Vu
- Jan 26
- 3 min
Feeling Guilty for NOT Missing your Parents
If you have a toxic, narcissistic, or dark triad mother or father you can relate to feeling the “I think I miss them” feeling because...
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Sarah Vu
- Jan 12
- 2 min
The Truth about the Phrase "Take Back Your Life" after Narcissistic Abuse
We often hear “take back your life” after narcissistic abuse. This may be true for some people who have only ever encountered...
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Sarah Vu
- Dec 24, 2022
- 4 min
7 Things a Scapegoat goes through in a Toxic Family System or Relationship - Part 2
What does a scapegoat go through in toxic family systems and relationships? Today we are covering 7 things a scapegoat goes through in a...
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Sarah Vu
- Dec 15, 2022
- 5 min
Holiday Hoovering
Hi everyone, it’s the holiday season. That means that if you have a narcissistic parent or another family member, they are going to try...
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Sarah Vu
- Nov 15, 2022
- 3 min
7 Things a Scapegoat goes through in a Toxic Family System or Relationship - Part 1
What does a scapegoat go through in toxic family systems and relationships? Today we are covering 7 things a scapegoat goes through in a...
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Sarah Vu
- Nov 2, 2022
- 4 min
What is a Lost Child and What Effects Follow them into Adulthood?
The terms narcissistic, sociopathic, or psychopathic are not being used as a diagnosis. These terms are being used as descriptors for...
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Sarah Vu
- Nov 2, 2022
- 4 min
What is a Scapegoat and Why are they Chosen?
The terms narcissistic, sociopathic, or psychopathic are not being used as a diagnosis. These terms are being used as descriptors for...
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Sarah Vu
- Nov 1, 2022
- 5 min
Seven Signs of a Narcissistic Parent
The terms narcissistic, sociopathic, or psychopathic are not being used as a diagnosis. These terms are being used as descriptors for...
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Sarah Vu
- Jun 5, 2022
- 1 min
Important Dates for Survivors of Abuse
Male Domestic Violence Awareness Week - March 1-7 National Child Abuse Prevention Month - April World Narcissistic Abuse Awareness Day -...
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Sarah Vu
- May 5, 2022
- 5 min
How to Handle Mother's Day when you have a Narcissistic Mother
This blog is for educational and awareness purposes only. The terms narcissist, sociopath, and psychopath are used in this blog as...
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